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      <title>Please Make Fun of the Boss</title>
      <description>&lt;p&gt;While reviewing some articles related to small business management, I came across the following post&amp;#8230; titled, &lt;a href="http://www.execupundit.com/2007/02/note-from-boss-to-employees-what-some.html"&gt;Note From Boss to Employees&lt;/a&gt;, by Michael Wade. As a young business owner, who only 16 months ago was working in his attic&amp;#8230; to now trying to figure out how to run a company with over ten employees (and growing), posts like this remind me that we all have so much to learn. :-)&lt;/p&gt;


	&lt;p&gt;Here are a few that I appreciated&amp;#8230;&lt;/p&gt;


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		&lt;p&gt;&lt;em&gt;&amp;#8220;I may not have been given a huge amount of training before being named to a supervisory position. As a result, I&amp;#8217;ve had to learn through trial and error. That&amp;#8217;s not always bad. Many of my responsibilities can only be learned through practice.&amp;#8221;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;/blockquote&gt;


	&lt;p&gt;Yep&amp;#8230; that&amp;#8217;s me! The only difference is that I promoted myself instead of being promoted by someone else. I&amp;#8217;m still not sure what I got myself into sometimes. ;-)&lt;/p&gt;


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		&lt;p&gt;&lt;em&gt;&amp;#8220;I will make mistakes. Please give me the same understanding that you&amp;#8217;d like me to give you when you blunder.&amp;#8221;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;/blockquote&gt;


	&lt;p&gt;This reminded me of a blog post from last year, titled, &lt;a href="http://www.embedded.com/showArticle.jhtml?articleID=192800005"&gt;Avoiding the most common software development goofs&lt;/a&gt;, which points out that things like ignorance and stress are often to blame for mistakes in development. I feel like these are reasons for goofs in just about any environment, especially business. Let&amp;#8217;s face it. We&amp;#8217;re not perfect and we&amp;#8217;re going to make a lot of mistakes. Once we&amp;#8217;ve agreed on this, let&amp;#8217;s take the next step and see what happens.&lt;/p&gt;


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		&lt;p&gt;&lt;em&gt;&amp;#8220;If I do something dumb or am on the verge of doing so, please tell me. Don&amp;#8217;t hint. Tell me.&amp;#8221;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;/blockquote&gt;


	&lt;p&gt;Perhaps this is a common problem for most small business owners. Are employees afraid to tell me that I&amp;#8217;m doing something dumb?&lt;/p&gt;


	&lt;blockquote&gt;
		&lt;p&gt;&lt;em&gt;&amp;#8220;If either of us has a problem with the other&amp;#8217;s performance, let&amp;#8217;s talk about it.&amp;#8221;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;/blockquote&gt;


	&lt;p&gt;As they say, real friends will be honest with you about your faults. Not because they want to make you look bad, but because they care.&lt;/p&gt;


	&lt;p&gt;Each of the points that I have listed here are pointing to is&amp;#8230; &lt;a href="http://dialogue-driven.org"&gt;healthier Dialogue&lt;/a&gt;, which is always a challenge to accomplish&amp;#8230;  in any relationship&amp;#8230; whether with clients, coworkers, bosses, or employees.&lt;/p&gt;


	&lt;p&gt;I&amp;#8217;d like to add a few to this list.&lt;/p&gt;


	&lt;ul&gt;
	&lt;li&gt;It&amp;#8217;s easier to ask for forgiveness, than to ask for permission. &lt;/li&gt;
		&lt;li&gt;I&amp;#8217;m still trying to get the hang of this &lt;span class="caps"&gt;GTD&lt;/span&gt; stuff, so.. you might remind me if I forgot something.&lt;/li&gt;
		&lt;li&gt;Ask yourself on a regular basis, &amp;#8220;Am I having fun?&amp;#8221; If not, make time for some.&lt;/li&gt;
		&lt;li&gt;Please make fun of the boss! :-)&lt;/li&gt;
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      <pubDate>Fri, 02 Mar 2007 00:26:00 -0600</pubDate>
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      <author>Robby Russell</author>
      <link>http://www.robbyonrails.com/articles/2007/03/02/please-make-fun-of-the-boss</link>
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      <category>d3</category>
      <category>management</category>
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